Gender and family life.




In family life, love is the oil that eases friction, the cement that binds closer together, and the music that brings harmony. “Friedrich Nietzsche”

This quote has a special meaning for me. Home can be where your heart is and family is the strongest treatment for your soul. Each of us cames from different family-style and we are unique for what we represent and how we were raised. Heavenly Father created us to come here and have a life and create that according to our choice, obviously with His might Help, but we should make our choices and change always for good and become better. Most of the people find power when they are closer to their loved ones and especially family. No one is perfect which means our family is not perfect, therefore this can make everything really desirable because if we were the same everything will be really boring. The difference that we see started from an early age to children and especially between boys and girls. According to many studies, they came to the conclusion that girls express more emotions than boys. On the other hand Boys can be tough and really energetic when it comes to games, fights or sports. Even though this can be classified as gender differences we still have one thing in comen that we all are human beings. Chaz Bono, an author said “Gender is between your eyes and not your legs.” I do think that these descriptions even though is really boldly has a special meaning because we judge really quickly the person if it is a boy or a girl. However, everyone can have qualities that can be valuable for both genders and accepted in society for good.

Since the begging girls were not equal enough with boys. Luckily in our days, this issue had been much better. However, we realize that another problem that we do have in our days is between marriage between the same marriage. Recently we have seen that many countries support this and by law, they can be married happily and continue their lives for good.
However we see that it is not that easy because not everyone understands and supports this thing. We should listen with the ears of our hearts and not only with the ears of our human being. I know that sometimes it is really hard to do that because we can judge really quickly the situation of another person but we should put our self in their shoes and change our ways of thinking and perspective.

I know that this needs a lot of changes in our minds and how we start to set our minds and look at those situations. In my own experience is a compelling example of this. Where I come from by-law of the land marriage between the same gender had been approved by the government. However, most of the people do not support that deep inside of themselves, life and society. They do judge those people that get married to the same gender and bullies had been always the main issue. This thing brakes my heart because those people do not find love, support, or even freedom. For some parts in my country, they are really stubborn and I do remember when a gay couple was together holding hands, the reaction of people was really rude and started to behave badly. I know that for most of people this can be really painful and can cost a lot of depression, lack of confidence, and lowliness.


I would like to encourage everyone to spread love unconditionally even though sometimes it can be difficult or sometimes we do not want to do so. We are a all equal and we can accept each other for who we are. People fall in love with the person not a gender. Rejoice with your family in the beautiful land of your life, and accept everyone to feel the same love that family can bring.